Some lucky parents get dream babies who just move along through life cooing and smiling. But many of us get babies that are just grumpy! Don't feel discouraged if you have a fussy little one. Like so many things in life, this too shall pass. There are some things you can do to help your cranky little one right away, however.
Swaddling and "Shushing"
A classic method of helping fussy babies is the swaddle. You can swaddle your baby in any manner you prefer; there are different swaddling styles. The most important part of the swaddle is that the baby's arms are held tightly against his side. The legs are not as important and can even be left out of a swaddle as your baby grows, or during hot weather. Find a swaddling style that works for you and stick with it.
When you swaddle your little one you keep her in a familiar situation: the womb was a pretty tight squeeze by the end of your pregnancy! Babies are soothed by having their arms close to their sides.
Don't expect a swaddle alone to calm your child, however. Some babies are calmed as soon as you swaddle them, but many appear to get even more upset while you're wrapping! This is completely normal. Babies have a hard time calming down from getting themselves worked up crying.
Once you swaddle your little one, pick him up and use the "shushing" part of this technique. Your baby is used to hearing a lot of noise because the womb is very noisy. He heard your heart, your blood, your digestive system, etc. This "white noise" was a dull roar at about the level of a vacuum cleaner!
Making a loud "shushing" sound right next to your baby's ear can instantly calm her. It sounds really obnoxious to us, but babies like it. You must do it close to your crying baby because your baby needs to be able to hear it over her own cries. As your baby calms down you can lower the volume. Other white noises can also soothe your baby.
Get Outside
The second technique for soothing a fussy baby is to take a walk. Babies like to be outside. It's almost like they know that our natural environment is out of doors!
Put your baby into a baby carrier and start walking. Our newest baby would stop crying as soon as my husband crossed the threshold with her!
If it's cold out you can still bundle your baby up and go out for a walk. Wear and oversized coat so your baby can fit inside it (riding in his baby carrier). Zip or button so your baby's head is still peeking out. This makes a cozy place for your baby to enjoy the ride.
Your baby is used to the rhythm and movement of your body from months of being in the womb, so walking is very soothing. The fresh air and warm sunlight usually help your baby calm down too.
If your baby fusses even in the carrier, try taking her out and draping her over your forearm. Cup her head gently in your hand with her belly pressed against your arm. This position is really soothing to a lot of fussy babies. It usually does the trick when coupled with taking a stroll outside!
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