My husband Bill and I are in the middle of the IVF. Tons of doctor visits, crazy hormones and so many shots you feel like a pincushion. Fortunately, Bill and I have a sense of humor about it.
How have we here? Now, check-up, began also with a simple nine years ago. After an ultrasound, which shocked and confused the nurses, they told me, I had a bumper crop of fibroids and endometriosis some. This was three weeks before our wedding. Big time.
In the next eight years, I had three operations with three different doctors. The first doctor was the old school. He was the one who said: "boy, would we years ago you said you would never have a baby, but with the new technology you have at least a chance." Schon. His bed was not his strong suit. The latter was the best. We share the same sense of humor and have our way through all laughed my crazy plumbing problems.
The operations of things cleaned up, but has enough damage, that a child of the good old-fashioned way and way will I won't. Oh well. I think about it this way: I am not dead or dying. I have a husband, which makes me happy and a very satisfactory work. Really I do to complain? Close! This is just a waste of energy.
We started the IVF process in December and the Holy cow, it was crazy. You have no idea. Here is the short version. We were prescreened and psychoanalyzed. Bill shot me five times a day. I was an egg farm and was harvested. Chris (the love doctor) made little embryos. I began to feel ill. You could find not my cervix. My ovaries was swollen to the size of oranges. I got really sick. Then I was hospitalized for three days in the hospital. I gained like 10 pound liquid. Phew! Sound crazy? Yes it was. But I am now and feeling more like me every day.
Now, it's a waiting game. While I heal and more, our six small embryos in Petri dishes are paired and other companies to keep. You are a bit cool frozen, and all. The spring thaw for us will be the end of April, if I have to go to my first pregnancy.
First I want guys out thanks for the Nice answers and also wishes. You are much appreciated. As I say me if anyone has questions, or a little more detail just want my story about informed. I'm here to serve. Okay, my history back.
After the healing of my last operation, we decided with IVF ahead. After our homework and chatting to doctors, we found out that apparently hormones pregnancy can slow or stop the growth of fibroids and endometriosis. As they grow like weeds in me IVF seemed to have added bonus.
In the U everyone has to go a few informative sessions before you the process. The first was in September. Boy, was this information overload. They are very eager, very serious couples all backgrounds in this dark grey room with long tables fully. And then it was us. We were sitting, met with fun at each other trying to keep things as simple as possible.
We thought, it was a quick game of 45 minutes and we get a lot of brochures and we out of the door. Ah ha ha. Silly rabbit. It was three hours with a PowerPoint slide show, charts and figures, and oh my goodness, my eyes are glazing over again. She described the process step by step, described all the risks, said, what you would go through, physically and emotionally, then went back again on all risks. It was intense.
Then came the jaw-dropper. The financial Lady spoke about the prices. Now this is in accordance with my husband because I kind of from this time hidden. The procedure alone is $9.350. There are over $2,000 pre-school costs can, and the drugs quickly over $4,000. Yes, pretty dang expensive. Bill thinks that we should call Cooper the child because this will cost us the cash, the who, a large down payment on the mini had Cooper that he was lacking. Apparently, he is the comedian in the family.
After the meeting I realized that I was mentally ready. I had two operations in two years and was finally feeling healthy again. I had to by another attack to go on my body? I put off a decision for two months. I worked with my buddy training, ate healthy, but not healthy, and had a really good time. I was ready for the performance of the number two.
There was more information, more films, more medical terms, warnings and enough facts to the head turn right. This time we had a better idea what we were doing.
In the meantime, we have family and friends. Most were excited and happy for us. Then there was the extreme. A friend was so giddy at the thought of us have a child that she broke almost in tears. Then there is the friend who had passed through three friends IVF, and all had terrible experiences. "Want you go through really with this?" Adoption is so much easier, "said she."
So, OK, why we do this? Why am I me as I put $15,000 of Craps, the hope of seven the hard way? Oh, I remember to. I would like to this child and see all these family members, who have left us. My father, Bill grandfathers, my grandmother. We love to to see the people in this small face. The characteristics and Freakiness, which makes us family. I think this is a test value.
Cindi is the author for babycare-supplies.com. Cindi is the parent of two children themselves. Their baby articles are both entertaining and informative. On most days for their research of baby care saves deliveries or baby-care offer online preparation of their next informative report either from baby products or just general baby supplies.
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